A Perfectionist is chasing an illusion it doesn't exist in business
Ruble Chandy
Why Limiting Beliefs Are Holding You Back from Achieving Success
As human beings, we are programmed to seek safety and avoid danger. Our brains are wired to remember negative experiences more vividly than positive ones, which has contributed to the development of limiting beliefs. These beliefs are stories that we tell ourselves about our abilities and the world around us, and they often hold us back from reaching our full potential.
In the above transcript, we hear a person sharing a core limiting story that has been holding them back from success. They were born on Friday the 13th, and they have been unlucky all their life. This belief has become a part of their identity, and it is limiting their ability to see the opportunities that are available to them.
What Are Limiting Beliefs?
Limiting beliefs are the stories that we tell ourselves about our abilities and the world around us. These beliefs are formed based on our past experiences, upbringing, and cultural conditioning. They can be positive or negative, but the negative beliefs are the ones that hold us back from achieving our goals.
Limiting beliefs can manifest in different areas of our lives, such as career, relationships, and personal growth. For example, a person who grew up in poverty may believe that they are not capable of achieving financial success. This belief may hold them back from pursuing a career that could lead to financial stability.
How Do Limiting Beliefs Hold Us Back?
Limiting beliefs hold us back by creating a self-fulfilling prophecy. When we believe that we are not capable of achieving something, we do not even try. This lack of effort reinforces our belief that we are not capable, and we end up stuck in a cycle of self-doubt.
Limiting beliefs also create a negative mindset that prevents us from seeing opportunities. When we believe that the world is against us, we are less likely to take risks and try new things. This mindset limits our potential and prevents us from experiencing growth and success.
What If We Let Go of Our Limiting Beliefs?
If we let go of our limiting beliefs, we open ourselves up to a world of possibilities. By challenging our negative beliefs, we can reframe our mindset and start seeing opportunities. We can start taking risks and trying new things, which can lead to growth and success.
To let go of our limiting beliefs, we need to start by identifying them. We need to become aware of the stories that we tell ourselves and challenge them. We can do this by asking ourselves questions like, “Is this belief based on fact or opinion?” and “What evidence do I have that this belief is true?”
Once we have identified our limiting beliefs, we can start reframing them. We can start telling ourselves positive stories that empower us and reinforce our capabilities. For example, instead of saying, “I am not capable of achieving financial success,” we can say, “I have the skills and abilities to achieve financial success.”
Summary
Limiting beliefs are the stories that we tell ourselves about our abilities and the world around us. These beliefs are formed based on our past experiences, upbringing, and cultural conditioning. They hold us back by creating a self-fulfilling prophecy and a negative mindset that prevents us from seeing opportunities. By letting go of our limiting beliefs, we can reframe our mindset and start seeing opportunities. We can start telling ourselves positive stories that empower us and reinforce our capabilities. Letting go of our limiting beliefs is the first step towards achieving success and realizing our full potential.
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A Perfectionist is chasing an illusion it doesn't exist in business
Ruble Chandy